Love does not seek its own; that means not being self-centered.
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4Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.'8 Love never fails." -- 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (KJV)
"4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.' 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. '8 Love never fails." -- 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 (NIV)